Well, Michelle and JimBob Duggar are expecting another baby, their twentieth. nternet, here is a handy guide to discussing Michelle Duggar’s pregnancy in a nonmisogynist fashion.
Not misogynist: Criticizing the idea of “biblical patriarchy” on ethical, biblical, philosophical, and historical grounds. Wondering about the ethics of having a great many children when there’s reason to think that the earth’s resources might not be able to support as many people as it’s being asked to. Talking about the economics of childrearing, and how pregnancy diminishes many women’s chance at economic survival and independence. Discussing the frightening testimonies of women who used to be part of the Quiverfull movement. Unpacking the theological assumptions behind Michelle Duggar’s claim that, mindful of the fact that her last pregnancy was fraught with medical complications that put her health at risk, she is willing to “lay down her life” to have another baby. Pondering the christological contortions involved in such a statement. Feeling sad about the state of embedded theology, among those with theological commitments. Wondering, also, why anyone would take the leap from “Some very unusual women are happy at the thought of dying in order to birth another baby” to “Therefore this is what all women should do if they’re pregnant.” Drawing conclusions about what it says about our society that this family gets accolades from some quarters and serves as an entertaining televised oddity for many others.
Misogynist: Shaming Michelle Duggar for not making the choices you personally would have liked. Leeringly speculating about the state of her reproductive organs. Calling her names, especially names that have historically been used to silence and humiliate women. Shaming her by calling her a bad mother because doing so gives you a little thrill inside.
See also here and here. Hope this helps! Thanks you in advance for your cooperation.
